I myself asked many times that i am an attractive person or not..sometimes i feel i can pleasantly mingle with the people very well ,but when something happened which just contrary to my expectations i become very moody and feel that i am a kind of irritating personality and no one can bear me for a long time.I dont know how to develop a magnetism in me.I think many people are successful in that, and i am a failure to attract the positive attention of people.i just know some cheap show offs for getting attention of people.I always feel jelous at children coz how easly they can attract people...
who can positively attract the attention of many people, say, at a party at once, without doing anything special, just being herself/himself? What kind of a person it should be that everyone would admire and enjoy her/him? Will a tall blond girl with a perfect figure and a pretty face raise these feelings in the public? Surely no – ladies will mostly feel jealous and men will mostly be thinking how to pick her up (which is also not very positive as it suggests possession and ego-trip and not the true enjoyment). So who is that fortunate person whose ability is to be immediately appreciated by everyone? The answer is as logical as unexpected…
A child! It is a child who immediately attracts the attention of everybody, makes people laugh and raises the feeling of sweet enjoyment. You can fairly object to the statement that we, adults, are naturally not children any more and one can not compare. Right, we are so called grown-ups; however every one of us has some child-like qualities safe deep (or not that deep) inside. Don’t you feel like a child getting a desirable present? Suddenly seeing some colorful butterflies? Strolling around in a Christmas-decorated snowy city? Bubbling with curiosity while solving a puzzle? Being hugged and soothed while weeping by someone who cares?…
People want to be attractive because they want to be loved. At the best – by everyone. but,a wise person said “if you don’t have love, give love and you will find love”… Can we give love, just simply to everyone, without asking for something, unconditionally? What hinders us? What are we lacking?
who can positively attract the attention of many people, say, at a party at once, without doing anything special, just being herself/himself? What kind of a person it should be that everyone would admire and enjoy her/him? Will a tall blond girl with a perfect figure and a pretty face raise these feelings in the public? Surely no – ladies will mostly feel jealous and men will mostly be thinking how to pick her up (which is also not very positive as it suggests possession and ego-trip and not the true enjoyment). So who is that fortunate person whose ability is to be immediately appreciated by everyone? The answer is as logical as unexpected…
A child! It is a child who immediately attracts the attention of everybody, makes people laugh and raises the feeling of sweet enjoyment. You can fairly object to the statement that we, adults, are naturally not children any more and one can not compare. Right, we are so called grown-ups; however every one of us has some child-like qualities safe deep (or not that deep) inside. Don’t you feel like a child getting a desirable present? Suddenly seeing some colorful butterflies? Strolling around in a Christmas-decorated snowy city? Bubbling with curiosity while solving a puzzle? Being hugged and soothed while weeping by someone who cares?…
People want to be attractive because they want to be loved. At the best – by everyone. but,a wise person said “if you don’t have love, give love and you will find love”… Can we give love, just simply to everyone, without asking for something, unconditionally? What hinders us? What are we lacking?
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